Ok, this is bugging the crap outta me, but my boyfriend will certainly not kiss me. We have exceptional sex, and we both care for each other, though we"ve never before said it. However before, he simply will not kiss me. He will certainly move his head and kiss me neck passionatley, kisses me all over however my lips. When he"s drunk, he will kiss me, and also when he"s drunk, he"s amazing in bed. I don"t get it? I"ve asked him once prior to why he doesn"t kiss me and he said he just does not choose to kiss, or that he"s simply eaten, or some other stupid excusage. He is extremely insecure, so I"m wondering if this is probably an additional among his insecurites seeing as he just kisses me as soon as he"s drunk. I"m also wondering if it"s his method of distancing himself from me, feeling that kissing is too individual. He has never been close to anyone, and also has had actually an extremely messed up life, and also I think I"m the just one he"s ever before been close to. I would love input from guys that have actually hangups about kissing. PLEASE HELP!


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Lansing


Posted April 28, 2006

Lansing

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Posted April 28, 2006

Possible what Yang shelp.... probably attempt complimenting on his kissing abilities...


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REDIRECT43


Posted April 28, 2006

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I have actually in the previous complimented him. I remember when asking why he wouldn"t kiss me and he shelp, if I remember properly, that he wasn"t great at it. He then kissed me and I sassist "See, you can kiss!" But I think that was the last time we really kissed once he was sober, and this remained in February. I want to chalk it approximately inprotection however it makes me feel prefer he doesn"t care about me. He tells me he does not desire commitment, which is fine by me because I do not want it either at this allude in my life, yet I genuinely treatment about him, and I"m confident that he cares around me simply from his actions. But by him saying he does not desire commitment, I tfinish to tie the no kissing point to this as his method of distancing himself from me. Gosh it sucks, I simply want some tongue!


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PocoDiablo


Posted April 28, 2006

PocoDiablo

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Posted April 28, 2006

Heh. Get him a drink!!!


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loveydovey


Posted April 28, 2006

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Well bereason the typical for you guy"s connection has actually sort of been collection, it may (I hope not) take a momenupsychological effort to gain him to interact in a make-out session. Perhaps you could start small and also tell him that also a quick peck is a little gesture that goes a long method via you. Take baby procedures and view exactly how that goes.

 

However before, there was this one man that was currrrrazy over me and he was always exceptionally affectionate and also the works EXCEPT he did not favor kissing. He told me this before that he wasn"t a large fan of kissing. So maybe he"s simply among thos men. Good luck!


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REDIRECT43


Posted April 28, 2006

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Hmmm no, he does not have negative breath. He"s actually a very good kisser, so I don"t understand why he would have actually any hangups on kissing. I wonder sometimes if it"s my breath! I chew gum all the time, really strong minty gum so I do not have negative breath. I do not think I perform, but probably my gum is not to his liking? LOL I do not think it"s anypoint via negative breath. When I initially met him we kissed all the time. The first time we hung out together we made out choose crazy, my lips were babsence and also blue. (No lie!) It was embarrasing to go out in public via bruised lips, yet I"m dying for that passion we had actually on the first night. Not that there is any type of lacking, but that night was really really hot, haha. (Probably bereason we were both wasted) I think I need to make him drink even more lol.


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drum4god


Posted April 28, 2006

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Posted April 28, 2006

Redirect,

 

To be hoswarm I do not understand if this is a great sign. I was choose your boyfriend, and also if I wasn"t in love with a person I wouldn"t prefer to kiss them, yet would certainly sleep through them. I might be wrong yet this can be the instance via him.

 

Many guys (without realizing it) have actually 3 cateogories once it involves woguys they date.

1. Sexual chemisattempt, but are not connecting in other locations. Men commonly will not loss in love through this womales. At first the male might feel this way bereason sex is excellent, but when the passion dies, they usually gain bored, and also autumn out of love.

2. Chemisattempt in every location other than sex-related chemisattempt. The womales could be nice, sweet, cool, also physically attractive, yet are absent that sex-related spark. The guy can fall in love via this person, however more times than not, they will love the perchild dearly, yet not loss in love.

3. They have physical, sexual, emotional and intellectual chemisattempt. A man will certainly go via a brick wall for a women favor this, and also would love kissing this woguys favor this.

See more: Why Did President Hoover Respond Cautiously To The Great Depression? ?

 

I really hope I am wrong, and I don"t understand the whole case, yet you may be the girl in the first category. Due to the fact that a man (baring anypoint weird phobias) will certainly always kiss a women he is love with.